Calm Under Tension by Gwen Gyldenege
  • Home
  • Blog
  • Art
    • Artwork
  • Sewing
  • Spiritual

Wardrobe Architect: It's time.

8/15/2014

Comments

 
The Wardrobe Architect
After spending time rooting out my resistance to sewing a 1920's dress and being honest with myself that, for my sewing, my life, my sanity, my finances, I really want to: 
  • Have a wardrobe full of only pieces that bring a smile every time I open a drawer or door.
    How awesome would that be to love every piece?  To wake in the morning or open a drawer and feel warm and fuzzy over every item you lay eyes upon? Heaven. Pure heaven. 

  • Use up my stash instead of hording. 
    My fear of cutting into fabric because I'll never get more of it needs to fade. To paraphrase what my practical Grandma would say, "Don't save it for his next wife; wear it. Life is too short & sweet to not use the good china or wear your pearls & fur coat." She lived up to that too. She & her friend used to wear their fur coats to the movies and eat chocolate covered cherries and let it all run down their chins. Now that's livin!

  • Minimize my purchases to only items needed (notions, lining, etc.) to complete a projects.  
    I dream of a day when I'll have next to nothing in my stash. I get inspired to make a project, then I just go out and buy what I need and make just that project.  Isn't the simplicity and freedom of that dream inspiring?  This is also because I've spent enough and now have 4 foot +  stacks of fabric (and that doesn't even include my coveted yarn & fiber stash that I'm in the process of destashing)

  • As items wear out or a gap discovered, quickly and easily make any item I need or want. 
    Right now, I am seeing gaps and items wearing out like bras, undies, jeans, cardigans, dresses for date night, swimsuit, sports bras, basic T's, etc.  Making a piece to fill a gap or replace a worn out item supports my financial goals (why spend more if I already have the stuff to make a replacement?)

    Fill-In-The-Gap sewing also challenges me to be creative and learn to make something new.  For example, I've sewn with denim, but I've never made Jeans before.  And, when I knew my regular bras were starting to wear out, I bought kits and DVD's from Bravo Bella.

    Currently I'm on the adventure of "fill-in-the-gap" sewing for my athletic wardrobe.  I've currently identified swimsuits, yoga stuff, sports bras and hiking gear.  I'm allowing myself to not race out and buy something I need (I'm saving money to travel the world), but rather offering time to discover what gaps I have in my athletic wardrobe as I wear pieces and am out being active. I feel better about myself and my choices to wait before purchasing when I allow the gap in wardrobe or gear to make itself known to me rather than me try to plan and figure out every little thing I might ever need. It's a more of a relief than I ever would have imagined to let go and trust that I'll be ok with what I have even if I do have a gap.  I feel more centered and less stressed. Woo hoo!

  • A wardrobe full of clothing I actually love to wear and do so regularly.  
    Unless it's a costume, and sometimes even then, I feel sad when a piece is only worn once a year if that.  That dress you wore to a wedding once? Why keep it if you don't love it and wear it?  Clothes that don't quite flatter? Ditch 'em. Or don't even make them. Someone else will look amazing in them.  

    Feel funny, silly, frumpy, uncool, old, young, or whatever in a piece? It's time for it to go if you don't feel like your best and brightest self in something. It's amazing how much my entire mood lifts when I wear something that I love and feel good in. Of course there will be days on occasion when you'll look amazing but still feel "meh."  That's part of being human. When I wear a piece I love, especially one I made, and someone else expresses their love & appreciation for it I am overjoyed. That makes my whole day!  Sewing for me is about perpetuating joy and making things I love and love to wear. 

  • Bright, Cheerful Color!
    When I left the corporate world, I also donated my suits, black socks, and slacks. It was very freeing and it also helped me release many of my sad/depressed emotions that went along with those jobs.  There were good days, but it was also a dark time in my life. Goodbye dark, navy-blue/grey/olive/black biz casual and hello bright & colorful Jeans & T-shirts.

    The brighter & happier the print & colors, the brighter & happier I am.  Seriously, I could live in mostly Jeans & T-shirts. I'm a totally casual, sporty-spice kind of girl.  Surfer girl style is so appealing. And I'm just not a make-up person. Heels - yeah, they're ok, but they're uncomfortable and my body aches after wearing them. I'd much rather wear cute comfy shoes that support my body's health long term. Hmm, am I a bit practical? Yes. If it means achieving my goals of returning to my athletic self, then I'll be practical!

As my fun friend Heidi used to say, "I'm off, like a prom dress, dearies!"  What a an adventure this Wardrobe Architecting thing will be. 
Comments
    Gwen Gyldenege

    Author: 
    Gwen Gyldenege

    I'm a one woman circus.  
    I'm curvy and athletic.
    ​I am a dancer.
    My last name translates 
    to "Golden Oak". 

    I'm an artist, intuitive, engineer, seamstress 
    and performer.

    RSS Feed

    Picture
    Picture
    Picture
    Picture
    Picture
    Picture
    Picture
    Sewing in Seattle

    Archives

    April 2018
    February 2018
    August 2017
    December 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    October 2014
    September 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014
    June 2014
    May 2014
    April 2014
    March 2014
    February 2014
    January 2014
    December 2013
    November 2013
    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013
    July 2013
    May 2013
    April 2013
    March 2013
    January 2013
    December 2012
    October 2012
    June 2012
    May 2012
    April 2012
    March 2012
    February 2012
    January 2012
    December 2011
    August 2011
    July 2011
    June 2011
    May 2011
    April 2011
    March 2011
    February 2011
    January 2011
    December 2010
    April 2009
    December 2008

    Categories

    All
    Activewear
    Adventures
    Art
    Artists
    ArtOfThe20sDress
    Calligraphy
    Cartoons
    Clown
    Comedy
    Costumes
    Creativity
    Crochet
    Dance
    Dancewear
    Dingleballs
    DIY
    Fabric
    Fashion
    Fiber
    Fitting
    Food
    Funkifabrics
    Garden
    Handwriting
    Hiking Gear
    Holiday
    Humor
    Inspiration
    Interviews
    Jalie 2795
    Jalie 2795 Hoodie Sew Along
    Jalie Patterns
    Jewelry
    KiddieAdultsUnite
    Kitchen
    Kits
    Knits
    Knitting Patterns
    Lifted Gifted Higher
    Lingerie
    Littlealters2013
    Mad Men Dress Challenge III
    Marketing
    MMMay14
    Moulage
    Muslin
    Needle & Thread
    Nwcreativespirits
    Outdoor Gear
    Paint
    Paper
    Passthepaper2012
    Pattern Drafting
    Photoaday
    Photography
    Pmc
    Prayer
    Projects
    Sculpt
    Sew
    Sewforvictory
    Sewing Workout Wear
    Sew News
    Shows
    Shrinky Dink
    Sing
    Skillshare
    Social Media
    Spring
    Spring Race Challenge
    Stories
    Tutorials
    Video
    Vintage
    Voiceover
    Wardrobe Architect
    Watercolor
    Yarn

Except for sources otherwise stated beneath images or bottom of the page (Creative Commons), all images and works are copyright Gwen Gyldenege, all rights reserved.  Contact Gwen to request permission.
Photos used under Creative Commons from I Robertson, DoNotLick, Gustty, Jayson Emery, Nbepko, Gamma Man, I Robertson, Lars Plougmann, RowdyKittens, Richard Masoner / Cyclelicious, The Wandering Angel, VasenkaPhotography, quinn.anya, Léa Chvrl, Lost Albatross, Guttorm Flatabø, BEST PHOTO, RowdyKittens, allistair, BozDoz, tanakawho, Navicore, Bilal Kamoon, D-Stanley, Kris Krug, glasseyes view, essers, Richard Masoner / Cyclelicious, Alex Pepperhill, Found Animals, adactio, Office Now